Hi Mr Clooney! The theory about the 10%? That 10% changes to 1% depending on who you’re talking to. Yeah, it probably originally did come from stats with online dating but has been spouted all over the place and is part of incel culture too.
I’m not sure about online dating and decent men not being online though. I’m sure there are some decent shy men on it - I haven’t been there in years- but also I don’t know if would be worth it anyway!

Thanks for your comment ☺️