Hi Alex. Thanks for the read and your reply.

I get what you’re saying but I think what the top 10% is isn’t really quantifiable in the sense that women like different things. Online dating probably produces certain outcomes in a very general sense, but in real life it’s definitely different. I think it’s probably different depending on whether people want to get laid or have a relationship too.

When I say ‘work on yourself’ I mean more that sometimes when men are desperate for sex or a relationship they use this 10% as an excuse as to why they don’t get them instead of actually realising that they do in fact come across as desperate and generally women can tell that. Either that or they still put in the minimum amount of effort to establish some kind of rapport. I feel people are better off working on not coming across like that by filling up their lives with other stuff before entering the dating game.

I appreciate your response though. It was thoughtful and I agree with you to a degree.

Have a nice day!